What’s The Kindest Thing Anyone Has Ever Done For You?
JStew & Cori with you, and we asked Monday's show, in honor of World Kindness Day, which was this past Friday: What's the kindest thing anyone's ever done for you?
JStew: I guess without a doubt, probably one of the kindest acts ever, was my mom giving my wife and I the down payment for our first house. We'd just gotten married, and literally didn't have more than two pennies to rub together. We tried hard to save moeny, but we were young, and didn't have super high paying jobs. We knew how to manage our money, but it would've taken us years to save up for it on our own. I know parents bail their kids out all the time, but this was different. My mom knew we could do it, we just needed a little boost. My mom rules, and I love her very much.
Cori: I consider myself very blessed to have been the recipient of several acts of kindness. It's humbling, really.
One that truly stands out as unbelievable to me happened just before Christmas of 2017. I had unexpectedly been thrown into the situation of being a single mom, just a few months before. I was still trying to figure out how I was going to make ends meet, let alone provide any kind of Christmas for my kids. I had an oil tank to fill and a mortgage payment to make. I had "retired" in 2011, when my second child was born and had been, up until that point, been a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom of 4. So I was also trying to find my way back into the workforce, which meant enrolling my 3 oldest kids in school. Outside of my family, not too many people knew what was going on. One day, when I went to pick up my daughters from school, as I was walking up to get them, a mom who's daughter was in my daughter's class, came over and handed me a small gift bag. I didn't know this mom well; just from morning drop-off and afternoon pick up. So I was surprised by the gesture, but accepted the bag graciously and went on to pick up my kids and head home.
Hours later, when the chaos of the day had died down, I remembered the bag, which I had set down on the kitchen counter and promptly forgotten about till then. I opened it and saw some chocolates and a card. Delighted by the thought of a grown-up mom snack, I popped a chocolate into my mouth and opened the card.
I almost choked on my chocolate when I saw what was in the card. And then I started to cry.
There were two gift cards, with an amount I won't name--but I can assure you, I was able to fill my oil tank and get all the kids some gifts that year.
This woman, on behalf of her family (she explained this to me later, when I tracked her down to thank her) had heard about my situation and wanted to pay it forward. She said her family had been helped in a time of need, and they wanted to help others now that they were in a position to do so.
I was floored. And humbled. And moved. It was amazing. And it made a time, which for the most part was one of the darkest moments in my adult life, so much brighter because of their kindness. I will never forget what they did, as long as I live.
And from your responses, there are many folks out there who are performing some amazing acts of kindness
Kari Jo Davis "1 week after Christmas 1988, my family home was destroyed by fire. It was 80 degrees below zero with the wind chill. I can't tell you how the community stepped up for us. Shelter, food, clothing, toiletries... within a day. I'll never forget."
What we loved most about the comments was Wendy sharing her story about Maine energy, and Maine energy responding to her about how happy they were to help! How cool is that!! Check it out below: